In this lesson
Talking about someone else
Until now everything has been yo and tú: you and the person in front of you. Now you can talk about a third person: él (he), ella (she), and usted, the polite "you".
Good news: you already know almost every form. Look at tú and take off the -s:
| yo | tú | él / ella / usted | |
|---|---|---|---|
| ser | soy | eres | es |
| estar | estoy | estás | está |
| tener | tengo | tienes | tiene |
| querer | quiero | quieres | quiere |
| vivir | vivo | vives | vive |
| llamarse | me llamo | te llamas | se llama |
Ser is the only rebel: eres becomes es, not ere.
Him and her
- Se llama Diego.His name is Diego.
- Es de Guadalajara.He's from Guadalajara.
- Tiene treinta años.He's thirty.
- Vive en Cancún.She lives in Cancún.
- Quiere aprender inglés.She wants to learn English.
- Está cansada.She's tired.
Usted: the polite "you"
Usted is "you" for someone older, your boss or a stranger in a formal setting. It uses the same forms as él and ella:
| With a friend (tú) | Formal (usted) |
|---|---|
| ¿Cómo te llamas? | ¿Cómo se llama? |
| ¿De dónde eres? | ¿De dónde es? |
| ¿Cómo estás? | ¿Cómo está? |
| ¿Tienes tiempo? | ¿Tiene tiempo? |
In Mexico, use usted with older people, at the bank, with a doctor, or with your partner's parents the first time you meet them. If they want tú, they'll tell you: Háblame de tú (call me tú).
What someone looks like
For looks, use ser for the person and tener for hair and eyes:
Looks
- Es alto. / Es alta.He's tall. / She's tall.
- Es bajo. / Es baja.He's short. / She's short.
- Es delgado.He's slim.
- Es guapa.She's good-looking.
- Es joven.He's young.
- Tiene el pelo largo.She has long hair.
- Tiene el pelo negro.He has black hair.
- Tiene los ojos cafés.She has brown eyes.
- Usa lentes.He wears glasses.
What someone is like
For personality, use ser too:
Personality
- Es simpática.She's nice, friendly.
- Es amable.He's kind.
- Es divertido.He's fun.
- Es inteligente.She's smart.
- Es trabajador. / Es trabajadora.He's / She's hard-working.
- Es un poco tímido.He's a bit shy.
- Es muy buena onda.She's really cool, a great person.
Make the adjective match
Adjectives follow the person, just like nouns in the gender class:
| Ending | Masculine | Feminine |
|---|---|---|
| -o / -a | Mi hermano es alto. | Mi hermana es alta. |
| -e | Es amable. | Es amable. |
| -ista | Es optimista. | Es optimista. |
| -or | Es trabajador. | Es trabajadora. |
And they go after the noun: un chico alto, una mujer simpática.
✍️ Quick check
0/3
1.Mi hermana ___ de Texas. (My sister is from Texas.)
2.Mi mamá es muy ___. (My mom is very nice.)
3.To your friend's grandfather: ¿Cómo ___? (What's your name?)
The ser vs estar trap
Remember ser vs estar? With people it matters even more, because some adjectives change meaning. Ser describes what someone is like; estar describes how they are right now:
| With ser | With estar |
|---|---|
| Es aburrido. He's boring. | Está aburrido. He's bored. |
| Es listo. He's clever. | Está listo. He's ready. |
| Es rico. He's rich. | Está rico. It's delicious. |
| Es bueno. He's a good person. | Está bueno. He's hot. 🔥 |
Common mistakes
✗Mi hermana es alto.
✓Mi hermana es alta.
The adjective matches the person.
✗Ella tienes 25 años.
✓Ella tiene 25 años.
For él and ella, drop the -s: tiene.
✗Él es un doctor.
✓Él es doctor.
No un before a job, for anybody.
✗Mi novia está alta.
✓Mi novia es alta.
Height is what she's like: ser.
✗Mi papá es cansado hoy.
✓Mi papá está cansado hoy.
Tired today is how he is right now: estar.
✗La comida es buena. (to say it tastes good)
✓La comida está buena. / La comida está rica.
How food tastes right now is estar.
Put it together
Here's the sentence from class:
Mi hermana es alta y muy simpática.
- es: ser with ella, because it's what she's like
- alta: feminine, to match hermana
- simpática: feminine too, and muy makes it stronger
And now some friendly gossip:
Oye, ¿quién es él?
Hey, who's he?
Es Diego, mi primo. Es de Guadalajara.
That's Diego, my cousin. He's from Guadalajara.
¿Y cómo es?
And what's he like?
Es muy simpático y un poco tímido. Y es muy trabajador.
He's really nice and a bit shy. And he's very hard-working.
¿Cuántos años tiene?
How old is he?
Tiene treinta. Y tiene novia: se llama Carla.
He's thirty. And he has a girlfriend: her name is Carla.
¿Y cómo es ella?
And what's she like?
Es alta, tiene el pelo largo y es muy buena onda. Pero hoy no está aquí: está en Cancún.
She's tall, she has long hair and she's really cool. But she's not here today: she's in Cancún.
Now make it yours: describe someone in your family in five sentences. Their name, where they're from, how old they are, what they look like and what they're like.
Test yourself
✍️ Six quick questions
0/6
1.Mi papá ___ 60 años.
2.Mi amiga ___ en Chicago. (lives)
3.Los tacos están buenos means…
4.Mi jefa es muy ___. (hard-working)
5.¿Cómo ___ tu novio? (What's your boyfriend like?)
6.To an older woman you just met: ¿De dónde ___?
All the forms
Full present-tense charts
Nosotros and ellos are next class. Here's the whole picture for when you need it. We teach Mexican Spanish, so there's no vosotros: ustedes is "you all", for friends and strangers alike.
| yo | tú | él / ella / usted | nosotros | ellos / ustedes | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| ser | soy | eres | es | somos | son |
| estar | estoy | estás | está | estamos | están |
| tener | tengo | tienes | tiene | tenemos | tienen |
| querer | quiero | quieres | quiere | queremos | quieren |
| vivir | vivo | vives | vive | vivimos | viven |
| llamarse | me llamo | te llamas | se llama | nos llamamos | se llaman |